Today, I’m 30.
I’m super excited about being a new age. Especially, 30. I feel like my 20’s were my learning and growing years. I learned to be a Mama, had my first long term relationship & truly accepted myself as a single person. Among many other life lessons.
Towards the end of my 20’s this topic has become extremely hard & testing. As we all grew over the last couple of years, they’ve shaped their own personalities. Which has honestly made them argumentative, and annoyingly opinionated. Since everything is a learning experience, which I was being tested I would be failing terribly.
I’ve grew up along with them, so as I made my way through my 20’s. I also had to figure out how to be a parent. The last 10 years have been trying, but memorable. I wouldn’t change it for the world.
Totally different from parenthood, but equally as hard. Adulthood includes everything under the sun bills, parenthood, struggles & other responsibilities. Maybe, at times it can be the hardest task of them all. It’s a true juggling act, the funny thing is its something we all eventually face. Whether we like it or not. In my early 20’s, I was terrified by the situations I had to go through. I definitely wasn’t ready to handle a lot of the stuff I dealt with. I made a lot of mistakes along the way. Mainly, because I had no clue what the hell I was doing. I learn adult lessons everyday.
Working out use to be really foreign to me. My body use to be AMAZING! Now certain parts have been over ran by fat. Everything I eat sticks and its harder to not be self aware of my flaws. At this age, I have become more cautious of moles, how I breath and how I eat because health is wealth. I’ve become more active & even got in the habit of more bike rides around my neighborhood. I also got a minor surgery this week to remove a bump of benign skin and fat that I was avoiding for the longest. Its all about progress.
Men have always been important to me, they were fun and I loved the attention. If you’ve read any of my past blog post or listened to any of my podcast then you’re updated on my relationship status and why. I do have a new outlook on it all that I don’t mind sharing. It’ll happen when it happens. I’ve realized that the more you look for love, the longer it’ll take to happen.
I have no actual plans for my birthday this year, I’ve been saying yes to going out a lot more and having mini celebrations all week. That’s been enough for me.