For many Valentine’s Day has different moods. It really depends on who you ask. I’ve finally found a mood that works for me. And I wanted to share things that may can help February 14th be an amazing day filled with self love.
Mood 1: “I have a Bae, I’m good”
Mood 2: ” I hate this day, I’m single and I’m going to spend it alone because nobody wants me.”
Mood 3: “F**k It, I’m single but I have my girlfriends. We will celebrate together.”
Mood 4: “Valentines Day is a day created by the greeting cards companies to take all of our money. I will not participate.”
I think these may be the stages of my Valentines Saga.
“I’m alone but I’m not lonely, I have a lot of love in my life from the people around me. Most of all I love myself”
I’m promoting self love on Valentines 2018. This year for me is about loving me. All my insecurities, and fears. Putting me FIRST which I’ve always struggled with. I’ve been a Mother for 11 years, I will 30 in July. Like many mom’s my children are my life I’ve been 100 percent about them since day one. After them it was my relationship came next. I’ve been having a hard time separating the two. So I’ve been figuring out how to spend V-Day alone. Yes on purpose. Here’s a couple of my ideas for a great night.
I hope my ideas were helpful! And if you have any recommendations let me know!